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12-18-2006, 7:15 PM G.O.P 531 Joined on 02-20-2006 Rank NA new relationship - advice i may start a new relationship soon, and i was wondering if you guys can give me some advice. ive had a few partners and only one ex boyfriend knows the true amount (besides two of my closest friends) i want to be in an honest relationship but i feel uncomfortable divulgiving this information, as i dont want to scare away the person and i dont think it really matters to be honest. what do you guys think - in a new relationship is it always necessary to share intimate details about all your previous relationships or partners? thanks in advance :)    Report

12-18-2006, 9:01 PM Fabulash Joined on 01-25-2006 Rank NA Re: new relationship - advice I'd say don't tell...none of his business, and all it could do is hurt you, not help you.  It's one thing if someone has an STD and doesn't tell his/her partner (which is definitely wrong), but not telling him how many people you've slept with is fine.  To be honest, my husband doesn't even know how many people I slept with before we started dating, and he and I are both fine with that.  It never came up in discussions, probably because he didn't want to know.      Report

12-18-2006, 9:38 PM G.O.P 531 Joined on 02-20-2006 Rank NA Re: new relationship - advice for now, he doesnt know anything about my past relationships, but i think you are definetly right, i'll play it by ear and see how it goes, i dont think it will come up, at least i hope not. thanks so much for responding :)    Report

12-19-2006, 7:49 PM G.O.P 531 Joined on 02-20-2006 Rank NA Re: new relationship - advice anyone else?    Report

12-25-2006, 7:30 PM chanelstarlett Joined on 01-05-2006 OC Rank NA Re: new relationship - advice if something comes up and he asks be honest but if there are no questions then there are no lies - "I like my Money where I can see it, hanging in my closet"    Report

12-25-2006, 9:53 PM sofia Joined on 07-29-2006 Cambridge, MA Rank NA Re: new relationship - advice sometimes, a situation will be so emotionally intimate you'll both end up wanting to share those kinds of details. otherwise, it's your business until you want it to be his. the sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you-- dear prudence-- won't you open up your eyes?    Report

01-03-2007, 8:47 PM slm Joined on 02-24-2006 Rank NA Re: new relationship - advice I usually ask, so I usually tell. But most of the time if I don't ask they don't ask, so I don't volunteer the info. A lot of men insist they don't care if your number is higher than theirs, but I think they are lying.    Report

01-03-2007, 11:27 PM runit Joined on 09-01-2006 Rank NA Re: new relationship - advice Just don't tell. They say they want the truth but they can't handle the truth. My mom said never tell, so I went against her advice and when my hubby is upset about some thing he'll try to find a way to bring up the number, and what's crazy is most men will tell you "I don't know" or "too many" but won't give a direct answer but you say 5 and they're like OMG!!! That is your business and as long as you don't have an S-T-D then you don't need to share sexual history, but if you want to test his commitment say 62 and see what he says,lol.    Report

01-14-2007, 2:37 PM G.O.P 531 Joined on 02-20-2006 Rank NA Re: new relationship - advice haha thats pretty funny. but yeah i totally see what u mean. i toldmy ex my # and he would always throw it in my face during arguments... so yep, im not telling :) thanks everyone soo much for their help!    Report

01-15-2007, 10:01 AM HorsesAndHermes Joined on 01-10-2006 Washington, DC Rank NA Re: new relationship - advice Totally none of his business! It has no bearing on the current relationship so why does it matter? I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I don't know nor do I care to know. It simply doesn't matter.    Report

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