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Started by Dolce_Vita at 01-30-2007 1:27 PM. Topic has 31 replies.

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   01-30-2007, 1:27 PM
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So ...

I'm seeing this guy, and he's extremely tall, extremely good looking, and extremely nice.

We've been seeing eachother for like, 2 months now. Last night he dropped a HUGE bomb on me ... He's a model, and he did Milans Fashion Week last year, and is doing it again this year. I couldn't have been more SURPRISED ..... but then again, I should've known from his good looks.

Anyways, he showed me pictures *I drooled a little* and now I'm just like ... in SHOCK! What do I do? This guy is like, a big deal. He's very down to earth, not cocky at all, and all this great stuff ... but really, I'm just SHOCKED by it all. I have pics of him on the runway and just chilling with his boys if you ladies would like to see ...

but yeah, what do I do? I look at him COMPLETELY differently now *in a GREAT way* but I'm not COMFORTABLE around him now .... I have no clue why!

I just don't know what to do.     


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   01-30-2007, 4:03 PM
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Re: So ...

post pics...I'm dying here....  Big Smile [:D]

 

 


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   01-30-2007, 5:30 PM
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Re: So ...

been there with my boyfriend of the last 5 years...

it was hard for me to deal with knowing his past when we first started hooking up.  my situation was a bit different- it was brought to my attention within the first 2 days of meeting him. so i immediately felt as if I didn't have a chance...or even if I did, it was just a fluke.  i believe his friends exact words were: he is a genius (doctors said so), he modeled for gucci, and his ex had her own month in a certain publication that features women with little to no clothing.

it tripped me out for the better part of our first 6 months together. it definately made my self-confidence tweek out.

the only tip I really have (i have been with dude now for just about 5 years) is don't let him see you sweat about it.  just be yourself, and when you feel your emotions / self confidence are getting the best of you...just write down your feelings or express them to close friends.  but you really shouldn't let him see your insecurity, or lack of feeling comfortable around him, because that will make HIM feel uncomfortable.

be as nonchalant as you can about it when you are around him...but maybe when you are with your girlfriends, or talking with your mom, express all your concerns to them.

he obviously likes you...so just focus on that don't focus on all the reasons why he shouldn't like you or things like that.  just know that it has to be hard for him as well when girls find out what he does for a living.  break the mold, be cool and be a girlfriend, not a fan.

 

p.s being a model isn't THAT big of a deal either (not to be rude...).  maybe if he was like- a nobel prize winner, Prince William, Johnny Depp or Bill Gates, i would say big deal, but models come and go...and after a few years he will just be another pretty face that once graced the runways...

 

 

 

 


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   01-30-2007, 6:18 PM
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Yeah that IS a bomb.  A fabulous bomb. Big Smile [:D] hehe   

Dont focus on what he does, just focus on HIM.  Pretend he works at Amoco or something.  Something totally beneath you. hahaa  That way you can be ultraconfident around him.


Its so much better to never lose it, than to lose it and get it back--you can always tell the difference. With that said, most people never get it back, so if you get it back after you lost it, thats better than losing it forever.
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   01-30-2007, 7:34 PM
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Re: So ...

Thanks guys .... and yeah, I know a model isn't a huge deal or anything like that ... but it's just not your typical job ....

Here are pics if you wanna see :)

Him with his buddy *He's on the left* :

Him modelling for Parasuco in Milan last year :


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   01-31-2007, 10:39 AM
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who's his friend on the right?  hehehe...he is YUMMY.

 


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   01-31-2007, 12:37 PM
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Ha ha yeah .. he's extremely good looking, and if you can believe it ... he looks BAD in that picture, especially since he's SMOKING TOO! lol.

Funny how all the attractive guys all chill together, whenever they're at clubs, girls FLOCK to them ... they LOVE it! lol.

 


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   01-31-2007, 2:47 PM
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His friend looks gay gay gay. 

But Dolce's hottie is yummy!


Its so much better to never lose it, than to lose it and get it back--you can always tell the difference. With that said, most people never get it back, so if you get it back after you lost it, thats better than losing it forever.
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   01-31-2007, 3:51 PM
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Re: So ...

 label_whore313 wrote:

His friend looks gay gay gay. 

But Dolce's hottie is yummy!

 

LOL @ triple gay. I was kinda thinking the same thing...did you guys ever watch the Anna Nicole show? Remember her bootleg designer?? I think his name was Bobby-something or something-Bobby. Bobby Fabulous?? LOL...I can't remember. Anyhoo, he reminds me of Bobby....LOL


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   01-31-2007, 5:44 PM
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Re: So ...
Was it Bobby Trendy?lol
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   01-31-2007, 5:46 PM
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Bobby Trendy was so fun to watch....very colorful!!! 


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   01-31-2007, 6:01 PM
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Re: So ...
He IS cute! I have to agree with the friend looking a little gay. Maybe it is that pursed lip thing he has going on...its throwing me off...actually, now that I think about it, he kinda looks like my brother....

Anyway, back to Dolce's man...NICE Dolce! But don't sweat it.
I was dating this HOT doctor a few years ago (he overlapped my husband:). I felt the same way at first.For one he was just Hot as hell, but then he was a doctor too...After a few days you get over it though.....Just wait and see!
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   01-31-2007, 6:21 PM
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Re: So ...

His friend looks very chic, even smoking. 

lol @ me using the word "chic"....seems appropriate.

Dolce's guy is so hot, he'd be intimidating even if he weren't a model.  Look at those eyes. Storm [st] 


Its so much better to never lose it, than to lose it and get it back--you can always tell the difference. With that said, most people never get it back, so if you get it back after you lost it, thats better than losing it forever.
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   01-31-2007, 7:37 PM
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Re: So ...

LOL ladies I'm over the SHOCKED part now ...

When we were out bowling last night *yes, we're THAT cool* I realized ... hey, he's NORMAL. We were both struggling to keep the ball in the lane, and all that fun stuff. That's when I was like, okay so he's not like GOD! lol.

He asked me later on if the whole 'MODEL' thing shocked me and I was like ermmm yes! Then he laughed and said, at least I know you didn't GOOGLE me when we first started dating so that's a plus lol.

That's the BEST part ... he basically asked me if we were at the 'exclusive level' ... I was like ... YES! haha I'm extremely happy sorry if I'm babbling.

The only creepy part is that he wore a white dress shirt, tie, AND a suit jacket with jeans KNOWING we weren't going anywhere special. Whatever though, I can learn to deal lol.


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Re: So ...
 guccigoo wrote:

 

Bobby Trendy was so fun to watch....very colorful!!! 

 

LMAOOO!! Yes, Gucci!!!! That "be's" him!! OMG..tooo funny. I couldnt remember his name for ANYTHING. But that's it...and tooo funny @ the picture. And I agree..he was soo fun to watch. I loved the episodes that he appeared in. He was hilariously confident. Loved it..

Remember when he jacked up Anna Nicole's bedroom?? It was lookin allll kinds of ugly.

Bobby Trendy...LOL


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Re: So ...

But anyway, I'm sorry Dolce for hijacking your thread.

Let me say this...I'm happy for you. Just go with the flow. He sounds like a nice guy. And the suitjacket/tie/jeans thing...I kinda like that. He's going against the grain, and I love a person who doesn't conform.

Good luck with your relationship! Keep us informed...! Smile [:)]


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   02-01-2007, 10:32 AM
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yeah, the shirt/tie/jeans thing is sexy!!
Its so much better to never lose it, than to lose it and get it back--you can always tell the difference. With that said, most people never get it back, so if you get it back after you lost it, thats better than losing it forever.
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   02-02-2007, 7:05 PM
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Re: So ...

Yeah, it is sexy ... but BOWLING ... lol.

Whatever though, I guess he knows more than me ... he's in the fashion industry, and I'm not lol.

He is in a commercial now, and every time I see it I can't stop.

He also did the Loreal ad for that special gel they made a few summers ago ... I didn't know that either until he told me yesterday lol.

Anyways, I'm babbling ... enough of that lol.


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   02-02-2007, 7:51 PM
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 Dolce_Vita wrote:

Whatever though, I guess he knows more than me ... he's in the fashion industry, and I'm not lol.

haha, true!

Awww, I love L'Oreal. 


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   02-07-2007, 11:06 AM
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Bowling IS cool, so yes, you are THAT cool!


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