Re: He's just out of a relationship: help!
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He's just out of a relationship: help!
Catwalk xsuicide
11-18-2007, 9:41 PM
The guy I have had a crush on forever finally broke up with his girlfriend of around three years. I stayed the night with him Thursday night but we didn't go past making out. How should I play this next? I obviously don't want to push him too fast since I'm sure he doesn't want a relationship right now, but I also don't want to just do nothing!
George Bernard Shaw once wrote there are two tragedies in life. One is to lose your hearts desire; the other is to gain it. Clearly Shaw had his heart broken once or twice.
- One Tree Hill
Re: He's just out of a relationship: help!
LuxeLuthor
12-19-2007, 10:58 AM
Oh wow, that is so weird. I am in the exact same position. Well, I might be. The guy is still deciding about whether or not to move to my city and break up with his GF of 7 years or continue with a long-distance relationship. He wants to be with me when we are in the same location, but he doesn't want to just leave the past 7 years behind. It's really tough for me, because I feel like we are meant to be together, but I also don't want to just be the rebound girl. We've been emotionally involved for 4 years so it seems like way overdue for this to happen, but it needs to be handled very delicately. And I think you should just have the expectation that he might need time and take things slow. Don't force anything, or else it may make you look desperate. Make sure you are being his friend, not just his lover.
good luck
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